I grew up in a co dependent relationship with my mother. I am now happily married and have a 1 year old. My mum is still wanting me to do things her way and gets upset when I don’t comply. She is my mum and I don’t want to upset her… she really wants to spend time alone with my baby. But I’m reluctant and there is no real need. Just want to do our own thing… she’s welcome to hang out, but that isn’t enough apparently. How do i get her to understand?